Marriage Counselling - How To Help : CFA Ministry

What is the treatment form and direction of marriage counselling?

The professional marriage counselling treatment form and direction of CFA Counselling Ministry is:

(a) Based on the theory of marriage and family system to analyse the problems of marital life coordination, the communication barriers between husband and wife, the troubles in the interaction between husband and wife, and the breakdown of the marriage relationship, to find out the causes or root causes of marriage, family, mental and emotional problems (including the underlying causes of the formation of the problem and the precipitating causes that directly lead to the problem), help people to awaken, discover insight and hope, plus search for possibility of change in the marriage relationship;

(b) Integrate with multiple schools of marriage counselling therapy (integrate multiple counselling theories) to construct multiple perspectives and interventions of marriage counselling, so as to make marriage counselling therapy more complete, including releasing emotion, unraveling stagnation, dealing with marital conflicts, eliminating communication barriers, improving the communication and interaction of couples, enhancing and enriching the marital relationship, providing different choices in the arrangement details of marriage and family life and the relationship between husband and wife, so that the couple's communication can be changed from negative to positive, the trouble and problem of themselves can be released, the couple's communication and the relationship gap can be removed, the difference in value judgment can be narrowed, the couple's interaction and self-regulation ability in emotion, thought and behaviour can be strengthened, then marital problem are troubled any longer.

(c) Use resilience research as the blueprint and framework for marriage counselling therapy to improve the overall psychological quality, break through bottleneck in marital relationship, overcome challenges in different stages of marriage, adjust the pace of couples and restore the consistency and common ground between couples, and also strengthen self-compassion to help couples to understand and support each other, regain personal confidence, and move toward healthy marriage and family life.

Our marriage counselling composes of four levels:

(1) Deal with the marital relationship and communication problems that couples are currently facing,

(3) Improve and strengthen the couple's communication, turn the negative cycle into positive one, enhance and enrich the relationship between the couple,

(4) Consolidate the couple’s communication and marital relationship, so that the couple’s relationship is always fresh.